Cyber Sex Part Three: WEBCAM SEX


 With the cessation of isolation comes the end of our three-part cyber sex series (wah). So, in honour of the virus that internet shamed us into completing 10 push-ups, we bring you our top 4 sexy truths that isolation taught us: 


1. Video sex doesn’t have to be the most awkward sex

If the idea of video sex freaks you out entirely, you are not alone. Take your typical sexual gawkiness and multiply it by 1,000 and you have maybe come close to how uncomfortable video sex can be.

But if iso has taught us anything (except for how to bake a perfect banana loaf that no one cares about), it is that we can enjoy the things we love, without having to leave the comfort of our homes.

To prepare for your cyber date, take time preparing yourself and your space. Dress in an outfit that makes you feel sexy and confident. Clean your bedroom, light some candles and chuck on a sexy soundtrack (I like Mambo Number 5, personally). Set aside time in your diary and make sure your partner has too.

Communication is key. Before your video appointment, take the time exploring what you and your partner are comfortable with. If it helps, plan a sexy scenario that you would like to play out together. Remember, your imagination is the only limit to exploring your sexual fantasies. Have fun with it!




2. Two’s company, three’s an orgy


Video sex isn’t exclusive to one-on-one interactions, and for those who are sexually curious, sex parties can be a fun and exciting way to explore your sexuality, with or without a partner.

Lockdown has impacted many parts of everyday life, and sex parties are no exception. With many companies hosting online versions of these events via video link, you can now participate in raunchy meet-ups from the comfort of your own home.

For a newbie, participating in an online sex party can relieve some of the anxieties of attending an IRL event. Starting with a video interaction can prepare you for the real thing, and act as a ‘trial run’ for when you attend a face-to-face event further down the track. After all, if you don’t like it, you can just exit the app and never think about it again.

Like the face-to-face events, attendees are encouraged to wear masks if they are going to appear on camera. Attendees will usually have the option to stay off camera during the session if they would prefer to just watch other members playing.

Like anything, it is important to remain safe while participating in video sex parties. Though photography and filming is banned at physical events, online parties can threaten users’ privacy as it is possible for attendees to record without permission.



3. Technology has come a long, long way


Gone are the days of purchasing a Hitachi Wand under the guise of a ‘personal massager’ to get your rocks off. Now it is possible to have mind blowing sex with your partner, even if they are thousands of kilometres away. Thanks to toys like the WeVibe, all it takes is one visit to the App store and your partner can control your orgasm from the other side of the planet.

Toys will typically connect via a smartphone app, so anyone can regulate your toy while you use it. Hand over control of your orgasm by synchronising your toy to someone else’s phone. Through the app, your partner will be able to control the speed, vibration and intensity settings, leaving you to just sit back and enjoy the ride.



4. There are a lot of websites out there


No partner, no worries! The beauty (and horror, depending how you look at it) of the interwebs is that you can find absolutely anything you need to satisfy your sexual desires. A quick google search will reveal countless opportunities for you to engage in anonymous cyber sex. From chat rooms to cam sites, you can get your kicks with just a click of a button (and a few credit card details).

From sexting to video sex and everything in between, iso has certainly emphasised our resourcefulness when it comes to sex. Yes, sometimes a good old fashioned romp-a-thon can be just what the doctor ordered. However, just because we no longer have to live in isolation, doesn’t mean we can’t continue to enjoy all the spoils that cyber sex has to offer.

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