While self-exploration is wonderful, mutual masturbation can be an incredibly enjoyable experience with a partner. It enhances intimacy, allows you to communicate your preferences, and can be sensual and erotic. Trying different positions adds to the excitement!
Get creative…
You don’t have to always be facing each other – play around with your positions! Partnered self-pleasure can be even more intimate and sexy when your bodies are in contact, too.
Some different positions you could try include:
- Lying on your sides, facing each other, legs intertwined - great for an intense session, with lots of deep eye contact and making out
- One person sitting up against the headboard, the other facing forward in their lap, off-centre so you both have room to reach your genitals - maximum skin-to-skin contact for all the yummy vibes. And the best part? The person at the back can lean forward to kiss (or bite) their partner’s neck and whisper dirty things in their ear. Hot!
- ‘Makeshift missionary’, where one partner lies on their back and the other on their front beside them, with legs intertwined or not - good for simulating missionary without the penetration.
And if you’re wanting to spice up your session even more, here are some smokin' hot ideas to try when self-pleasuring, together:
- No-one cums until you’re both ready to - This is a great way to tease and edge each other; for example, right when you know your lover is getting ready to blow, slow your own rhythm back down and cheekily let them know that you’re not done yet.
OR, the opposite:
- Try to make them cum first - Whoever cums last, wins. Know their deepest fantasies and hottest kinks, or how to dirty talk them just the way they like? Pull out all the dirtiest tricks in your arsenal to get your partner so hot and bothered (without you physically getting them off) that they just can’t control their climax… and watching them go over the edge can be your reward.
- Role-play - Come up with a scenario you both love about why you’re ‘not allowed to/shouldn’t go all the way, but…’ And don’t be afraid to get kinky! YUM.
Ooft. Have we got you hot and bothered yet?